tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463655558550518858.post2824399939390020870..comments2023-09-29T04:55:41.715-06:00Comments on A Deliberate Life: Letting go of resentment...Christinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13708815560712267698noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463655558550518858.post-75404814413049057602011-03-21T12:08:58.627-06:002011-03-21T12:08:58.627-06:00I feel like these days I use avoidance. I feel ba...I feel like these days I use avoidance. I feel bad for that with some people but I think it has allowed me to still have a relationship with them even though it's now very limited. It also allowed me to grow and do what I needed to do for me. I think learning not to let others keep you down is huge in doing what is needed for self growth. A great post Chris, as always so very very insightful. I'm thankful for your words every time I read them.bbubblybhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06423578980112090148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463655558550518858.post-9937656961346337842011-03-20T23:53:45.300-06:002011-03-20T23:53:45.300-06:00I have just stumbled across your blog, and this po...I have just stumbled across your blog, and this post is very inspiring. I have recently figured all this out for myself after much emotional trauma, but I wish I could have read this five years ago. What a relief it is to finally let go of that resentment. This is a great post - in fact, your blog in general is amazing! I'll keep reading for sure. : )Miss Erikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03999151626411203271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463655558550518858.post-27777746214843879152011-03-20T21:07:28.678-06:002011-03-20T21:07:28.678-06:00I love your thoughts on this hard situation. We w...I love your thoughts on this hard situation. We want them to change so bad, though. :( <br /><br />This is definately one I am gonna keep to re-read during hard times. Tnx.Christine Jeskehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00980803092490489163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463655558550518858.post-79968709937170721882011-03-20T11:38:19.016-06:002011-03-20T11:38:19.016-06:00Wonderful post! I thank God for you! You said it...Wonderful post! I thank God for you! You said it so well! And it needs to be said - so often!Weighing Wellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14405732578239574618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463655558550518858.post-20622572576703705662011-03-20T09:22:45.887-06:002011-03-20T09:22:45.887-06:00wow chris, where did you get your theologial train...wow chris, where did you get your theologial trainning???????did you go to an evangilist school for spirituality????????????you are a real leader to us, now i wish my mom and siter were alvie so i could try all that stuff you spout on them<><><>i guess i could try it on my wife and kids><><>i feel lucky to be able to read your words<><><>love ya the putzPutzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08480109111920196513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463655558550518858.post-22037397075553687802011-03-20T09:20:54.076-06:002011-03-20T09:20:54.076-06:00wow, I REALLY needed to hear this today. You are s...wow, I REALLY needed to hear this today. You are so right, on many issues. We can't change other people but we can change our view of the relationship or event....<br /><br />Thank you!Anneg121https://www.blogger.com/profile/15955965756119241565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463655558550518858.post-48071190040705322932011-03-20T09:05:50.895-06:002011-03-20T09:05:50.895-06:00Chris this so spoke to me since my anti mom post! ...Chris this so spoke to me since my anti mom post! And its true when I hang on to resentment it hinders ME as a person! Your amazing and thanks for the amazing post!Ms. Chunky Chickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00040326465746097157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463655558550518858.post-57739964515651115222011-03-20T08:44:05.652-06:002011-03-20T08:44:05.652-06:00So very true, Chris. Resentment is the seething k...So very true, Chris. Resentment is the seething killer. It takes continual work (for me), but it is SO worth it. Great post.Roxiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01440676304336222503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463655558550518858.post-21242053243259638992011-03-20T05:22:43.296-06:002011-03-20T05:22:43.296-06:00So true. When I find myself in this situation with...So true. When I find myself in this situation with other people, i take a deep breath and tell myself: "I can't control the thoughts and actions of others, I can only control my own."<br /><br />Sometimes it's tough to let go of these feelings, especially when it is someone close to you, but it is important to be able to do so.<br /><br />Nice post!Crissy Raehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15960584706958582064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463655558550518858.post-43661090582523338022011-03-20T04:22:37.603-06:002011-03-20T04:22:37.603-06:00Every time I visit your blog, I am WAY blessed. W...Every time I visit your blog, I am WAY blessed. WAY!Pretty Paulinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15832732138849626377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-463655558550518858.post-86549103652484098832011-03-19T22:43:58.262-06:002011-03-19T22:43:58.262-06:00Great post Chris! One many of us can identify with...Great post Chris! One many of us can identify with!Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08433530343156355284noreply@blogger.com